We live in a very superficial world. Every day, we're presented with glossy social media messages presenting the best of everyone else's life. Hollywood and even our "news" media presents a scrubbed reality which will support a specific political or socially-acceptable point of view. We're taught to embrace the external and believe what we're told. And yet, real maturity is the recognition that what's under the surface, the core essence of something or someone, is the true re